Have you tried setting the registry key and rebooting?
1. Open HKEY_LOCAL_MACHINE\Software\Policies\Microsoft\Windows\WindowsUpdate\AU\
2. Change AUOptions to 2 (Notify before download)
3....
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Have you tried setting the registry key and rebooting?
1. Open HKEY_LOCAL_MACHINE\Software\Policies\Microsoft\Windows\WindowsUpdate\AU\
2. Change AUOptions to 2 (Notify before download)
3....