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Unfortunately no, your only choice it to download all available updates, or to wait and download them later.
For an individual update you want to block, you could use Microsoft's wushowhide.diagcab tool to hide it...
Hide or Show Windows Updates in Windows 10
...but for the full control that you ask for you'd need 3rd-party help, such as...
OPTION SEVEN - To Enable or Disable Automatic Updates using WAU Manager
If you click 'Check for updates' it is assumed you want to download and install them straight away so you won't be offered a choice.
Windows Update automatically checks for updates approximately once a day, only the automatic check notifies you that updates are waiting to download. To be precise, by default it checks every 22 hours, minus a random factor to make sure not all machines will hammer the update servers at the same time. This time can be changed from the default if you wish to check more frequently, there's another group policy for this.
https://docs.microsoft.com/en-us/win...tion-frequencyAutomatic Updates detection frequency
Specifies the hours that Windows will use to determine how long to wait before checking for available updates. The exact wait time is determined by using the hours specified here minus zero to twenty percent of the hours specified. For example, if this policy is used to specify a 20-hour detection frequency, then all clients to which this policy is applied will check for updates anywhere between 16 to 20 hours.
In addition, option 7 in the same tutorial below will allow you to disable automatic updates to be able to selectively download and install updates you want.
Enable or Disable Windows Update Automatic Updates in Windows 10