22Green said:
True I understand. Thanks guys for all the info. I might sit on 1903 do more reading and maybe bite the bullet since its almost Sept. hoping most of the bugs are worked out.
Well, 1903 is fine for many who have installed it- you can read many people's experiences in the News item on 1903, for example- pages of them.
How to get the Windows 10 May 2019 Update version 1903

More if you read the comments in the thread per 1903 update released subsequently,

Further, when a major build is released, typically you might best wait another month or so til the first major update is released - for the flak to die down. That's where 1903 is, and then some.

So consider when you might get 1909, if you were to wait for that:
Now 1903 was released 21st May, but delivered slowly via Windows Update. Allow another month to the first update - that's June. Add 6 months, and you may be waiting for 1909 until mid December.