(Help) (your phone app) how to still get calls with focus assist on?

I am trying to figure out how to still be able to receive calls on the "your phone" app while having focus assist on, I need it on when playing VR games so I can still answer calls but I don't want focus assist off because I don't want constant notifications of everything showing up.
I tried adding Android system, calls, phone, and your phone to the priority list so the notifications would still come through but "your phone" won't connect to my phone and keeps saying to turn off focus assist. is there another way to be able to have my calls come through and keep focus assist on?

windows 1903 (build 18362.657)

Have you found a solution to this? I also want to make and receive calls, but don't want my other notifications constantly popping up