I see what you mean, thank you, I have a usb hub that has buttons and you can press each button to activate the hub you want to use, so I can select the order that way, but yet the issue remains if...

Yes, exactly like that, have the PC remembers the setup same like xbox, I think its logical that they have this option.
What sort of physical switch are you referring to?
Also, tried to find some...

Pluging out is not an option that works for me, the controllers are rgb and I want them to be plugged in all the time, plus I cannot bend under my table every time I need to restart my pc, also...

Hello, I have 4 xbox controllers plugged in on my Win 10 machine, every time the PC resets different controller is set up as player 1/default controller, its like the ID's of the controllers change...