Wake from Sleep with Touch Pad and Keyboard

Right to try and help you lets try it this way
Start
Right Click
Scroll to Power Options
Which you will see in the menu
Click on that
You will see
6-7 things you can do
Read through them
I have mine so when I close the lid it goes to sleep
When I open lid it wakes up
If after 20 mins of non activity the screen goes dark
Once screen saver has finished
I then tap the space bar or touch pad
It starts up again that is not sleep but hiberanate
If I want it shut down completely
Then I do Start
Right click
Scroll down to sign out or shut down
Never come across what you are on about