There's hacks, I believe some are called Trojan Horses, where they can see your monitor exactly how you see it. So if, worst case scenario, they are...
So... your hardware appears to be working fine (according to Device Manager) but you're not getting either an automatic change nor a prompt dialog......
It doesn't look that old to have Windows 3.1, probably Windows XP. I remember a really old laptop that I wanted to install Windows 98 on. It had 32MB...
I'll share my theory of what is going on. With current builds of W10, I do not believe that old Database folder I renamed is used anymore. It doesn't...